James & I have been married for 4 years now. In many ways we are quite similar, but butt heads on some issues. I think we tend to get on each others nerves. Sometimes it's because we want each other to agree on everything. James has a very boastful opinion and I tend to be more go with the flow to a certain extent (at least that's how I see it). Either way, lately I've been thinking a lot about how a marriage works. I came across this article today and thought I would share.